Some of my healing from autoimmune disease can be directly attributed to the food I eat and the food I don’t. A few years back, an elimination diet revealed I have a sensitivity to gluten, dairy, and eggs. While I wasn’t surprised about the gluten or the dairy I was so sad to see eggs go. I live in the land of breakfast tacos for cryin’ out loud! On top of all that I make it a point to avoid processed food and sugar.
So from a standard American diet point of view, I am pretty limited in what I can eat.
While my diet is health supportive (and delicious) it tends to be different from most people’s. Because of that I stopped inviting people over for meals as much or accepting dinner invitations. I didn’t want to impose my restrictions on others and I think I felt a little self-conscious about serving people my “weird” diet.
But ya know what, that’s no way to live. I love my friends and I love to eat with them and cook for them. And bonus: participating in the community keeps us health. So I started accepting dinner invites, although it took me awhile to stop apologizing profusely for all my dietary restrictions (maybe I’m not completely there), and I started having people over again. Last night, in fact, my dear friend (and soon to be podcast co-host!!!) and her awesome kiddo came over for a cookout.
Here is the weird meal I made.
Grilled Tempeh* and Veggie Fajitas with Guacamole
- One to two packages of tempeh (I really like Lightlife’s flax tempeh). You can easily replace this with any meat of your choice.
- 8oz of vegetable broth
- One TBS of fajita seasoning or 1tsp cumin, 1 tsp chili powder, 1/4 tsp garlic powder, 1/2 tsp of coriander.
- Sweet potato peeled and cut into 1/2 inch planks.
- Two bell peppers cut into big wedges.
- Two or more portabella mushrooms washed with stems removed
- Half of a red onion (keep intact)
- Two ripe avocados
- Three to five garlic cloves minced
- The juice of one and a half limes
- Salt to taste
- Place the tempeh ingredients in a cast iron skillet on the stove over medium heat. Simmer the tempeh for up to 20 minutes, flipping as you go. Make sure to add a bit of broth if the pan starts to dry out. You could do this step a day in advance and let it marinade in the refrigerator.
- Coat the vegetables, onion, and mushrooms with either coconut oil (which is constantly melted in my house this time of year) or olive oil. Toss with the fajita seasoning, about 1 TBS.
- Heat the grill to medium heat.
- Cut the tempeh in half, making two squares. Brush with oil on either side.
- Place everything on the grill starting with the tempeh. The tempeh goes on the top rack and I placed the bell pepper and sweet potato in a veggie basket like this Grillux Stainless Steel Vegetable Grill Basket (affiliate link). The mushrooms and onions (cut side down) go directly on the grill.
- Grill everything for about 15 minutes flipping everything but the onion in the halfway through.
- Make the guacamole by mixing all the ingredients together. This will make a really large batch, which is a beautiful thing.
- Once cooked, slice up the tempeh, mushrooms, sweet potatoes, and onion into long stripes.
- Pull out lettuce leaves, chard leaves, or a tortilla of your choice and make the best fajita ever!
We had so much fun eating and hanging out. My weird diet didn’t feel so weird and made me realize I was the only one making it weird. The adults had fun, the kids had fun, and just because I don’t dine on sugar and dairy didn’t mean the kids had to reframe. A note on soy. Most soy we consume in the US is really not great for us. This soy is the by-products of GMO seeds from subsidized farming that is put into all our processed food or shaped into fake meats, soy dog anyone? While this type of soy is not great for our health, fermented soy, like tempeh, has beneficial probiotics and has lots of vitamin K2. While you don’t want to eat any soy all day every day, I believe fermented soy can be a part of a whole foods diet that supports our health. Check out what Dr. Hyman has to say about it here. Or course, just like I am with eggs, you may not be able to tolerate soy and thats cool too. Stay tuned for more on elmination diets.
2 thoughts on “Yes you can be social even with a “weird” diet and bonus recipe”
I can totally relate to the not having company over because of diet restrictions.My food became bland. I have resorted to having a spicey sauce on the side. Like you I have gotten to the point where I can hang out with friends again..
I’m so happy for you! It’s a good place to be. I love your solution too!